~ فَفِرُّوا إِلَى اللَّهِ ~

Prophet ﷺ taught us:   “Know that....   victory comes with patience,  relief with affliction,  and ease with hardship,”  (Tirmidhi).   When we feel an internal instability, these steps may be hard, but Allah (swt) tells us  “And those who strive for Us – We will surely guide them to Our ways…“ (Qur’an,  29:69 ).  The feeling of being lost bring us closer to Allah ~ Alhamdulillah.

By Raiiq Ridwan This ends the sequence of articles and I hope and pray you benefitted from it. I ask Allah  subhanahu wa ta`ala  (exalted is He) to accept it and to forgive me for my shortcomings. We will end by again speaking about Jannah (Paradise) as that is what we strive to attain. Ibn al-Qayyim said, in regards to the description of the Paradise and the delights that it contains: “ And if you ask about its ground and its soil,  then it is of musk and saffron. And if you ask about its roof,  then it is the Throne of the Most Merciful. And if you ask about its rocks,  then they are pearls and jewels. And if you ask about its buildings,  then they are made of bricks of gold and silver. And if you ask about its trees,  then it does not contain a single tree except that its trunk is made of gold and silver. And if you ask about its fruits,  then they are softer than butter and sweeter than honey. And if you ask about its leaves,  then they a...

Visual VS Emotional Posted on   December 25, 2011   by   Pure Matrimony_2 The Prophet (pbuh) said: "Convey (my teachings) to the people even if it were a single sentence.." (Bukhari) Allah has created men and women differently. One of the most pronounced differences between genders when it comes to issues of intimacy is  arousal . Each gender has been keyed to respond to different senses. If a couple wishes to maximize feelings of closeness and intimacy, it is essential that each party understands the other’s arousal mechanism. For men, the primary sense of arousal is  physical. Seeing the figure, smelling the aroma, and touching the body of a woman is what arouses a man. When a man’s  physical  needs are satisfied, he is most likely to reciprocate with  emotional  responses. For a woman, on the other hand, the primary sense of arousal is  emotional . Feeling loved, appreciated and cared for are the underlying emotional factors that wil...

‎"I have not seen a person more similar to the Prophet's appearance, conduct,  guidance, and speech, whether sitting or standing, than Fatimah. When she  enters, the Messenger of Allah stands up, kisses and welcomes her, then takes  her hand and asks her to sit in his place." (Tirmidhi) I always admire the loving character of the Prophet and will always admire him..  How I wish I could have a close relationship with my father........  Like Rasulullah and Fatimah. ='(  But its ok... the only relationship where u'll never have ur heart broken is the  relationship between u and ALLAH. Remember that ALLAH loves u more than  any other creature in this world. Subhanallah :)

"Orang Mukmin adalah ibarat cermin bagi Mukmin yang lain. Mereka bersaudara di antara satu sama lain. Memelihara harta bendanya dan melindungi kepentingannya masa ketiadaannya" (Riwayat Abu Daud) Bila terfikirkan hadith Rasulullah s.a.w ni tentang orang Mukmin adalah ibarat cermin bagi Mukmin yang lain, terasa macam dush! tertampar diri sendiri especially bila tengah sembang2 dan buat perangai macam2 dgn family dan kawan2. character kita akan sentiasa berubah. bila dgn org ni, character kita lain, bila dgn dia ni pulak, character kita jadi lain. 1 persoalan yang selalu ada kat dalam kepala ni, yang mana 1 character yang sebenar??? kadang2 rasa mcm hipokrit..dgn org ni baiiikk dan sopan saje.. dgn dia tu pulak, perangai kdg2 mengalahkan hantu. ntah2 hantu lagi baik. ish Nauzubillah! terrrexaggerate pulak. hehe. seronok hantu ade org kata diorg baik. =) tapi mmg kite kena adapt ngn character dan cara org lain kalau nak berkawan kan?? xkan nak perangai sama je sntiasa.. tu d...

Somebody calls her Nenek Humaira. Hehe. I love you, pretty sista! budak2 kecik ni mmg membahagiakan kan kan?? tapi kenapala ade org yg sanggup buang anak??? pukul anak?? ckp benda2 xbaik kat anak??? Pelik sungguh manusiaaaaaa.......

Buat julung2 kalinya kami bersua muka dengan sgt meriahnya sgn family belah abah. Sepupu2 semua dah besar2.. Alhamdulillah Allah masih memberikan kesempatan utk kami meluangkan masa bersama di Teluk Batik.. Adik2 la yang paling seronok, sebab dapat bermandi manda di laut!  Mak pun xmelepaskan peluang bermandi manda. Aku jadi photographer cukupla kan... Lepas bermandi manda, kitorang main game yang telah disediakan oleh pihak urusetia. tapi sempat bermain2 sekejapje kerana cuaca yang tak mengizinkan.. game disambung pulak pd hari yg berikutnya.. aku jadi tukang catat pemenang. ok la...boleh kenal nama2 sepupu sepapat yang dah lama xjumpa tu... =) musical chair para photographer marangkap para sepupu yang berkaliber saye telah memenangi tempat pertama cari gula2 dalam tepung! yeehaaa ni lawan sape paling creative buat istana pasir dan pemenang pertama jatuh kepada Balqis Hannani adik sy yang comel.. hehe mak kegembiraan.. kehkehkeh before balik Manong...

Baruje sampai malaysia 2 hari.. kerinduan pada rakan2 di bumi Scotland telah berada di tahap melampau. xbaik sungguh diri ini. bosannya tak buat apa2 kat rumah..nak kerjaa... haritu dah plan nak buat bisnes ngn k.Su & Ellss..tapi xtaula bila nak start.. Ellsss help me please!!!

Met lecturers at Al-Maktoum just now and Dr. Luqman gave a very good advice to me, Alhamdulillah..  He said, remember this hadith; The Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said, “Fear Allah wherever you are. Follow up a bad deed with a good deed and it will wipe it out. And deal with people in a good manner.” [ Sunan al-Tirmidhi ] He explained; 1st,Fear Allah when you are alone and when you are with other people. If you fear Allah you'll never commit sins, you will never do something bad because you know Allah is always there with you and Allah is always looking at you. This show the relationship between you and Allah. 2nd, follow up a bad deed with good deed and it will wipe it out. This relates to the relationship with yourself. You need to purify your heart, always repent and ask forgiveness from Allah so that you will get a healthy and clean heart. This heart insyaAllah will bring you to Jannah.  3rd, deal with people with good manner. In your relationship with people, n...

Nabi Muhammad alaihi solaatu wassalam mengingatkan para sahabat, hendaklah kamu awasi diri kamu dari duduk dijalan2 awam. Hak2 semasa duduk/ berada di jalan contohnya ketika menanti rakan/ ibu kita dlm kenderaan semasa mereka sedang membeli barang dikedai atau di mana2 sahaja, perlulah kita untuk: 1)Menundukkan pndangan (ghaddul basar). jangan meliarkan mata kita dari melihat sesuatu yang tidak sepatutnya terutamanya manusia yang berkemungkinan besar akan menaikkan syahwat. Jika terpandang, maka cepat2lah mengalihkanlah pandangan, jgn ikuti pandangan pertama dgn pandangan kedua kerana ia adalah dosa. 2)jgn menyusahkan org lain (kafful azaa) contohnya: jika parkiing kenderaan, maka letakkanlah ia ditmpt yg sepatutnya, tmpat yg tidak akan menyusahkan org lain, jgn menghalang laluan org. 3)Beri/ jawab salam (raddus salam) kepada orang2 yg melintasi kamu. 4)Tunaikan tanggungjawab amar ma’ruf nahi mungkar. contohnya jika terlihat sesuatu kemungkara berlaku, maka perlulah kita berbuat s...

Alhamdulillah semuanya berjalan dgn lancar. semalam agak busy, xsempat nak update apa yg berlaku semasa berconvo. K.Su kena bg speech mewakilkan students, dan airmataku menitik-nitik sebab terharu dgn speech beliau. K.Su mmg pandai bab berkata-kata ni. Nadya yang mmg suka gelakkan aku dah cuit2 kt belakang. I already missing her. Sampai hati balik Brunei awal2. Sampai hati u Nadya tinggalkan i samapi hati. Dr. Hussein yang duduk kt atas stage pun dah merah mata tau Nadya! nak nangis la tuuuuu.... hehe. I'm gonna miss you too, Dr.Hussein. You are truly, a man of character. I learn a lot not from your knowledge, but your good character. Dr. Hussein ni dari Iran dan dia seorang Syiah tapi dia xpernah memperlekehkan org2 Sunni dan kami mmg xpernah ada masalah dgn dia, Alhamdulillah. Dr.Hussein, and his wife, Dr. Masoumeh Velayati, my supervisor and friends!!   Hmmm lepas semua dh naik stage amik scroll masing2, Dr.Alhagi umumkan pulak best student for this year.. dan kemudia...