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The feeling of being lost bring us closer to Allah ~

Prophet ﷺ taught us:   “Know that....   victory comes with patience,  relief with affliction,  and ease with hardship,”  (Tirmidhi).   When we feel an internal instability, these steps may be hard, but Allah (swt) tells us  “And those who strive for Us – We will surely guide them to Our ways…“ (Qur’an,  29:69 ).  The feeling of being lost bring us closer to Allah ~ Alhamdulillah.

Delights of Paradise

By Raiiq Ridwan This ends the sequence of articles and I hope and pray you benefitted from it. I ask Allah  subhanahu wa ta`ala  (exalted is He) to accept it and to forgive me for my shortcomings. We will end by again speaking about Jannah (Paradise) as that is what we strive to attain. Ibn al-Qayyim said, in regards to the description of the Paradise and the delights that it contains: “ And if you ask about its ground and its soil,  then it is of musk and saffron. And if you ask about its roof,  then it is the Throne of the Most Merciful. And if you ask about its rocks,  then they are pearls and jewels. And if you ask about its buildings,  then they are made of bricks of gold and silver. And if you ask about its trees,  then it does not contain a single tree except that its trunk is made of gold and silver. And if you ask about its fruits,  then they are softer than butter and sweeter than honey. And if you ask about its leaves,  then they are softer than the softest cloth. And if you

Man and woman : Visual vs emotional by Sheikh Yasir Qadhi

Visual VS Emotional Posted on   December 25, 2011   by   Pure Matrimony_2 The Prophet (pbuh) said: "Convey (my teachings) to the people even if it were a single sentence.." (Bukhari) Allah has created men and women differently. One of the most pronounced differences between genders when it comes to issues of intimacy is  arousal . Each gender has been keyed to respond to different senses. If a couple wishes to maximize feelings of closeness and intimacy, it is essential that each party understands the other’s arousal mechanism. For men, the primary sense of arousal is  physical. Seeing the figure, smelling the aroma, and touching the body of a woman is what arouses a man. When a man’s  physical  needs are satisfied, he is most likely to reciprocate with  emotional  responses. For a woman, on the other hand, the primary sense of arousal is  emotional . Feeling loved, appreciated and cared for are the underlying emotional factors that will mostly make the woman love back in re

How beautiful their relationship.....

‎"I have not seen a person more similar to the Prophet's appearance, conduct,  guidance, and speech, whether sitting or standing, than Fatimah. When she  enters, the Messenger of Allah stands up, kisses and welcomes her, then takes  her hand and asks her to sit in his place." (Tirmidhi) I always admire the loving character of the Prophet and will always admire him..  How I wish I could have a close relationship with my father........  Like Rasulullah and Fatimah. ='(  But its ok... the only relationship where u'll never have ur heart broken is the  relationship between u and ALLAH. Remember that ALLAH loves u more than  any other creature in this world. Subhanallah :)

Kawan Cerminan diri ~

"Orang Mukmin adalah ibarat cermin bagi Mukmin yang lain. Mereka bersaudara di antara satu sama lain. Memelihara harta bendanya dan melindungi kepentingannya masa ketiadaannya" (Riwayat Abu Daud) Bila terfikirkan hadith Rasulullah s.a.w ni tentang orang Mukmin adalah ibarat cermin bagi Mukmin yang lain, terasa macam dush! tertampar diri sendiri especially bila tengah sembang2 dan buat perangai macam2 dgn family dan kawan2. character kita akan sentiasa berubah. bila dgn org ni, character kita lain, bila dgn dia ni pulak, character kita jadi lain. 1 persoalan yang selalu ada kat dalam kepala ni, yang mana 1 character yang sebenar??? kadang2 rasa mcm hipokrit..dgn org ni baiiikk dan sopan saje.. dgn dia tu pulak, perangai kdg2 mengalahkan hantu. ntah2 hantu lagi baik. ish Nauzubillah! terrrexaggerate pulak. hehe. seronok hantu ade org kata diorg baik. =) tapi mmg kite kena adapt ngn character dan cara org lain kalau nak berkawan kan?? xkan nak perangai sama je sntiasa.. tu d

Khadijah Humaira ~

Somebody calls her Nenek Humaira. Hehe. I love you, pretty sista! budak2 kecik ni mmg membahagiakan kan kan?? tapi kenapala ade org yg sanggup buang anak??? pukul anak?? ckp benda2 xbaik kat anak??? Pelik sungguh manusiaaaaaa.......

family gathering Disember 2011~

Buat julung2 kalinya kami bersua muka dengan sgt meriahnya sgn family belah abah. Sepupu2 semua dah besar2.. Alhamdulillah Allah masih memberikan kesempatan utk kami meluangkan masa bersama di Teluk Batik.. Adik2 la yang paling seronok, sebab dapat bermandi manda di laut!  Mak pun xmelepaskan peluang bermandi manda. Aku jadi photographer cukupla kan... Lepas bermandi manda, kitorang main game yang telah disediakan oleh pihak urusetia. tapi sempat bermain2 sekejapje kerana cuaca yang tak mengizinkan.. game disambung pulak pd hari yg berikutnya.. aku jadi tukang catat pemenang. ok la...boleh kenal nama2 sepupu sepapat yang dah lama xjumpa tu... =) musical chair para photographer marangkap para sepupu yang berkaliber saye telah memenangi tempat pertama cari gula2 dalam tepung! yeehaaa ni lawan sape paling creative buat istana pasir dan pemenang pertama jatuh kepada Balqis Hannani adik sy yang comel.. hehe mak kegembiraan.. kehkehkeh before balik Manong zia